Caring for a loved one with Alzheimer’s

Advice for caring for a loved one with Alzheimer’s

Active listening;

  1. Allow time and patience for your loved one to express any feelings/concerns/issues
  2. Provide empathy and understanding of your loved ones needs
  3. Promote one to one time
  4. Ensure the environment is conducive to your relatives needs

 Focus on personal abilities;

  1. Allow the individual to carry out tasks in their own time and at their own pace.
  2. Always explain what you are doing and why
  3. Encourage independence by allowing them to complete tasks by themselves and provide guidance and support where needed.
  4. Break down complex tasks into more simpler forms
  5. Offer choices and respect their decisions
  6. Be respectful, maintain dignity and privacy

Effective communication;

  1. Speak slowly and use short simple words and phrases.
  2. Identify yourself when engaging with your loved one
  3. Focus on one piece of information at a time
  4. Use clocks, calendars and familiar personal effects

Caring for a loved one with a disability

Three top tips to assist you when caring for a loved one with a disability.

Promoting independence:

– Allow the individual to carry out tasks in their own time and at their own pace.
– Offer assistance when needed; wait until your offer is accepted before you help.
– Listen to their instructions and allow your loved one to carry out tasks in their own way.
– Provide empowerment through acknowledging your loved ones right to take control and responsibility of their own life, to make decisions and to respect their feelings and concerns.

Communication:

– Always put your loved one first and refrain from negative phrases/labelling.
– Treat him/her with dignity, respect and courtesy.
– Allow him/her time to express any concerns/feelings/issues.
– Be patient, flexible and supportive.
– Actively listen to what he/she has to say. Be attentive to his/her needs.
– Take time to understand and ensure that he/she understands you.

Active involvement:

– Encourage your loved one to take part in enjoyable activities.
– Actively involve him/her in ongoing activities both in the home and the community.
– Offer choices and preserve his/her right to choose.

Most importantly, manage time effectively, you need your time.

Keep safe this winter

               Prevent Falls & Trips
A fall in an older person can result in broken bones, hospital admission, and other complications arising from admission to hospital, such as pneumonia.
A fall can also result in loss of confidence and loss of mobility. Many falls can be prevented and by making small changes you can lower your chances of falling.

1. Keep Active and Exercise:
Regular physical activity makes you stronger and improves your balance and coordination.
Begin slowly and start with exercises you feel comfortable doing.
Start with walking. You can slowly increase the distance you walk.
Even if you have a chronic illness such as heart disease, high blood pressure, diabetes or arthritis, there is a certain level of activity to suit you. Many of these conditions will improve with exercise.

2.  Ask your G.P. to review your medicines:
As you get older, you may need to change the dose of your medicines.
Some medicines or combinations of medicines may make you feel faint or light headed, which could lead to a fall. Always check with your G.P. for advice.

3. Have your vision checked:
Your eyesight changes as you get older. Poor vision can increase your chances of falling. Make sure you get your eyesight checked on a regular basis.

Stairs, Steps and Handrails:
Handrails offering support are best placed at a height where they can be reached, on both sides of stairs.
Fix loose or uneven steps. Replace worn, loose or frayed carpet/rugs if possible. Keep stairs and floor free of clutter and well lit up.
Have a light switch fitted at the top and bottom of the stairs.
In the Bathroom:
Fit grab rails next to your toilet, bath and shower.
Your bathroom should be well lit up.
To avoid the risk of slipping, keep the floor dry.

Kitchen:
Keep items you use often within easy reach.
If you need to reach high shelves, use a steady step stool rather than a chair.
Bedroom:
Place a lamp close to your bed, where it is easy to reach. Make sure there is a light between your bedroom and the bathroom.

Falls are preventable. Also remember if you have a fall, even a minor one, make sure you visit your G.P. for a check-up. If you have fallen already you might be more likely to fall again, so it is important to slow down and use a walking stick, if recommended by your doctor.

Eat Well, Age Well

 

Tips for keeping a healthy diet

Breakfast – Select high fiber breads and cereals, colorful fruit, and protein to fill you with energy for the day. Try yogurt with muesli and berries, porridge with honey.

Lunch – Keep your body fueled for the afternoon with a variety of whole-grain breads, lean protein, and fiber.

Dinner – End the day on a wholesome note. Try warm salads of roasted veggies and a side of crusty brown bread and cheese, grilled salmon with spicy salsa. Opt for sweet potatoes instead of white potatoes and grilled meat instead of fried.

Snacks – It’s okay, even recommended, to snack. But make sure you make it count by choosing high-fiber snacks to healthfully tide you over to your next meal. Choose almonds and raisins instead of chips, and fruit instead of sweets. Other smart snacks include yogurt, cottage cheese and apples.

Avoid skipping meals – This causes your metabolism to slow down, which leads to feeling sluggish and leads to poorer choices later in the day.